Labor began and contractions did not seem to be progressing consistently. My son and daughter-in-law decided to go to the hospital so she could get checked. That's when they discovered that the baby was footling breach. He was trying to slide out feet first, which is not a desirable way to deliver a baby. This was a surprise, as he had been head down the week before. They also discovered that my daughter-in-law was already 7 centimeters dilated, so some quick decisions had to be made.
Since a vaginal delivery would be too risky, my daughter-in-law was prepared for a C-section. We received the news by text, thanks to my son, who asked us all to pray. And pray we did!
The doctor arrived and asked if they would like him to try and turn the baby. He explained that it was risky and very unlikely that it would work. If her "water" would break, it would mean an emergency C-section. They said they would like him to try.
Philip Gerard was born a few hours later, and we all rejoiced in God's care and mercy. This care
came through a physician who was willing to be God's instrument and was sensitive to the desires of my son and daughter-in-law to have as natural a birth as possible.
I am aware that God's blessings don't always come in ways we consider to be positive. Sometimes He blesses us with hardship or suffering. We may not understand why. So if you've experienced a C-section, a difficult birth or even the death of a baby, I don't believe that God abandoned you or removed His love or blessings. I pray you will experience His love and care even in the midst of your difficulties.
I pray for the day that the dignity and needs of each human being will be foremost in the minds of every doctor, nurse, counselor, pharmaceutical company, farmer, food company, chemist, political leader... But while I pray for this, I can begin. I can be sure I treat each person I meet with dignity and respect. Let it begin with me.