We often get what we expect and we tend to take steps with these thoughts or words in mind. If I am expecting a situation to be difficult, is it easier to just give up instead of persevering? If I expect that I will not be able to stick to my exercise routine or my healthy diet changes, then I probably will give in and quit when I experience discomfort or it becomes inconvenient.
My words can bring life and blessing to others, or they can tear down another's self-esteem and wound them. We can speak words in person, over the phone, through email, texting or tweeting, and regardless of the way they are delivered, they can still build up or tear down. "Never in the history of the world have words been so cheap, quick, irrevocable, and viral." - Joyce Meyer. We say things often without really thinking. Once the words are out (or emailed) they can't be taken back.
One challenge that Joyce gave was to not say anything that we don't think we could envision God saying. Would God say, "This is impossible, things will never work out"? Well, nothing is impossible with God. Our hardships and struggles create muscles, character and teach us so many valuable lessons. As Jim Rohn says, "Don't wish it was easier; wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems; wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenges; wish for more wisdom."
What if you tried today to speak more positive words, to express gratitude and appreciation for
everything in your life, and to change your life by the words that you speak? Give it a try and let me know what results you experience.
I remember as kids we had a saying that sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. We tried to convince ourselves but we knew that the words did hurt. Thanks for reminding me that words, even those I say to myself, can make my day better or worse.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the words you share each day in your blog. They help to inspire me.